Posted By: Scott on March 16th, 2009

Sue Beeny Photo by Jason Wilson
As a nurse, the first thing Sue Beeney would do at the beginning of her shift was to check the list of patients under her care. Tears would fill her eyes as she saw a line written through a name, because, of course, this meant that that person was dead.
After working in a veteran’s hospital for 1_ years, and continuously feeling the shock and weight that death left behind, she became restless. A vague and unformed question began to surface from the depths of her person until one day, in all its profoundness and simplicity, it faced her directly and unavoidably: What is grief?
In 1986 she enrolled into a self-paced study program about just that. Nine months later, she conducted her first grief support group of eight people in a local church lobby. But it didn’t stop there. People were still dieing and people were still falling into bottomless pits of despair and paralysis. Shell-shocked victims from all over the city began flocking to her intimate therapeutic meetings held in YMCA kitchens, psych hospitals, conference rooms of medical hospitals, and churches. She wrote books on the subject and lived through the doubt and tragedy of others, night after night – for fourteen years as she continued her full-time position as a nurse. In 1999, New Hope Grief Support Community was born. Sue finally quit her daytime job to become the president of her non-profit refuge for the hurt and wounded.
Today, New Hope has 241 volunteers logging in 6000 hours a year, and is running 35 eight-week groups of 8-10 mourners a year. Sue still personally leads as many of these groups as possible; highly trained, caring, and invested volunteers lead the rest. She and her team run weekend camps for children and teens and they even have a pet therapy dog named Cinder who lights up the world for both children and adults. Like Sue and her volunteers, he is a friend that will sit with you through your pain. No gimmicks, no sales pitches, no easy answers. Rather, a friend and comrade with whom you can slowly walk down the long dusty road of grief to a place of healing and a “new normal”.
On average, thirteen people are affected by each death. And each year over 3000 people die in Long Beach. Sue is one of these affected people and she is not holding back her tears, or her smile. Here is a link: http://www.newhopegrief.org //JASON WILSON
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